Nigerian socialite and relationship expert, Joro Olumofin, has taken to Instagram to share words of advice with ladies.
The young man told ladies to stop looking at every relationship like it would lead to marriage
Joro added that when a guy sees that a lady is not desperate for marriage, he would stop asking her for silly things and the respect will increase
A number of women, particularly in Nigeria, start to get nervous as they grow older and there is no prospect of a man they can settle down with around them.
This has led to some ladies not knowing their worth and doing funny things for any guy with the hopes that he will finally pop the magical question and make her his wife.
This sort of mind set has made many ladies subjected to heartbreak and a negative outlook towards men. Well, Nigerian relationship expert, Joro Olumofin, has taken to his Instagram page to advice ladies.
According to the relationship therapist, ladies should know in their minds that not all relationships will lead to marriage.
In the video attached to the lengthy message, Joro said that ladies should stop setting a day in their minds for their wedding because not all relationships will lead to marriage and that mind-set makes ladies very desperate and easy preys to guys.
In the caption of his post, Joro wrote: “This needs to be said. Ladies, Not every relationship is going to lead to Marriage. Some relationships are meant to teach you a lesson for the next one. Stop setting mental traps for yourself. Men are taking advantage of women because of this. You’ll see ladies washing plate, doing chores for boyfriend’s family members because they have set wedding date in their mind.
Also, the association of “God when”. Ladies have said God when so much that when they meet any guy he is definitely God sent and he’s the ONE.
Ladies, take control of this narrative. Let guys be the one saying God when will this girl say yes to me.”
See a screenshot of his post below: